The High-pothetical World

Often in our daily lives,we come across drunkards,stoners,smokers or even drug addicts…Amongst them i have a love for stoners cause they either have a reasonable story to stone or create the most epic incidents while they are stoned!!

Just like Snoop Dogg was Cameron Diaz’s weed dealer!!

Both never had a clue to be so famous and be in the limelight..They just enjoyed smoking weed..And let things go..

Yeah!!

The most important part of stoners are they leave matters instead of holding them back!!!Matters including griefs,failures and other matters!So stoning to them is a gateway to move on…

That does not mean i provoke teenagers to smoke over a teenage heartbreak!!BRO,What will u do if u have an overall 22 backlog papers or loss of parents….people do survive..without stoning..people do move on…

What i say is stoners can let go matters easily.Like if someone humiliated them,they will take a glimpse of the person and the importance of them in their life..This results in a either “FUCK OFF” or “I WILL SEE YA LATER”..Thus controlling the reaction to a situation which is quite important..Responding to a situation leads to solution whereas reacting does not…This shows stoners are less prone to chaos and fights.

Stoning isn’t good for health..One must not be dependent on the stuff to support them in moving on or carrying on various activities.Stoning may make u serious where u needn’t be or vice versa..It’s harmful for mental health obviously.

Stoning can be done for relaxation and entertainment purposes.There are other ways  for entertaining obviously..

Once when i was stoned,i was high enough to sing songs of Tagore and switch of the ignition of my bike and just looking here and there in the middle of the road in a thought that my petrol has ended and how will i reach home..Surprisingly a friend of mine was passing nearby just to see it was me and came to me to ask what happened..At that point i revealed that my petrol has ended and i need fuel ..So he thought of giving a last try seeing my eyes were red realising i was stoned enough to visualise hallucinations…Meanwhile he saw my ignition turned off and just switched my bike on and gave a start to see that there was enough petrol to travel 300 kms…He looked at me and said, “I NEED THE STUFF ASAP” and left.

At one point of life,i had a bunch of failures in various arenas like a heartbreak,loss of money or account with NEGATIVE money and a list of failures..I was just clueless as to leave the situation or grab hold of it and fight..I just didn’t knew what to do.So,I just bought some stuff,rolled a spliff and smoked out.It’s a different phase and i will reveal it in other blogs.At first i just smoked.Soon it relaxed my brains.I clarified my thoughts.I became stable enough to plan accordingly..I have succeeded in overcoming most of those problems.As soon i saw things getting sorted out,I realised i must think even more clearly without stoning cause it’s time to be more serious..

Every Once in a year we have a group of friends who do drink and stone themselves..And we have fun.We all have our own wars of our lives..BUT THE DAY WE GET OURSELVES DROOLED.WE FORGET THE WARS.WE ALL LIVE EACH OTHERS COMPANY.WE ARE THE HAPPIEST OF US ON THAT DAY OF THE YEAR!!NO STRESS…JUST HAPPINESS..We are not dependent on alcohol or weed for our happiness..but we do get stoned to be happy ,knowing life isn’t a happy journey …We have to fight each war and win them..

He never had any griefs or failures..All he wanted was to enjoy the stuff.Smoke and have fun.No stress was present in his life that he needed to smoke to move on..He just wanted to have fun.

You will never believe the stories that silent nights and roads could tell you!!

-Swati Roy Chowdhury

If u ever see a stoner,never judge him/her.Never ask him to drop off his habit of stoning.Instead make him believe its easy to live without stoning.I won’t promote stoning or smoking.But if u do stone ,know your limits and don’t be dependent.

SMOKING,STONING,DRINKING IS INJURIOUS TO HEALTH!!!

Take Care!!

Love you!!

swati

 

 

 

 

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Growing UP!!

Hola peeps!!

Welcome back!!!

Once a teacher asked in a class “WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?????”.Most of the answers were, “DOCTOR,PILOT,REPORTER,ARCHITECT!!”.Only a lone voice said from the corner,”HAPPY”.He was laughed at.The class grew up to realise his maturity and their wishes are being fulfilled but ,the “HAPPINESS” is missing.Even though one is pursuing one’s favourite career from the deemed colleges of the planet,that happiness is missing.

THE HAPPINESS WHEN THEY SHOUTED AND SAID DOCTORS,PILOT,REPORTERS,ARCHITECT etc etc..I am not disagreeing that u r unhappy but all i want to say is everyone,each and everyone has their own struggle..

NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO COMPARE INDIVIDUALS.ITS THE INTRA-COMPARISON THAT MUST BE PRESENT WITHIN THE SELF THAT HELPS US TO BE A BETTER HUMAN.

Ignore people who compares you with others.Compare your yesterday ,with your present for a better future.Once you start being better many rumours may spread ,cos there are many who don’t feel you must improve.Rumours may be true or false…Its how you response.

People may find flaws in you in their perspective.But it’s your sense of judgement to improve yourself if you feel necessary. Someone who thinks himself wise won’t be able to increase his wisdom.We are not just good and that goodness just can’t stay contant.All we need to think is how to be a better person.Be it in terms of responsibility,humility,maturity,wisdom.If we can’t handle criticism we haven’t grown up enough.If we can’t judge a situation rationally (from the three perspectives- the one being accused,the one who is accused and the truth),we are’nt grown up.

GROWING UP MEANS DEVELOPING PHYSICALLY AS WELL AS MENTALLY!!!!!!

AGE DOESN’T DEFINE MATURITY..Its our rational actions or our ability to view situations,that defines maturiy.The kid who whispered “HAPPY” in the class was matured enough to realise life isn’t happy enough..It was later when his classmates grew up to realise his maturity.HE WAS A KID BUT HE WAS MATURE .

  1. WHEN YOU STOP REACTING AND START RESPONDING.LIKE YOU COULD HAVE RELAXED ABOUT THE RUMOUR AND THOUGHT THAT TRUTH CAN’T BE HIDDEN,BE IT HARSH OR SWEET.
  2. NOT BREAKING TRUST.TRY TO KEEP WORDS..IT WAS AN INVISIBLE TRUST OF KEEPING THOSE WORDS WITH YOU.
  3. WHEN YOU KNOW BLIND FAITH IS WRONG AND TRUST IS GOOD..IT MAY HAVE BEEN A POSSIBILITY..SAYING RUBBISH INCLUSIVE OF FEW FACTS ABOUT SOMEONE NEVER REQUIRES CONTACTING THAT PERSON AND THIS PHENOMENON IS RUMOUR.IT IS AT THIS POINT WHEN YOU REALISE TRUTH WILL APPEAR TO LIMELIGHT.IRRESPECTIVE OF 1000s OF RUMOURS.SO PAY NO HEED..NO JUSTIFICATION OR CLARIFICATION FOR RUMOURS.TRUTH WILL FIND ITS WAY!
  4. WHEN YOU TAKE THE CRITICISM FROM YOUR CLOSED ONES.BECAUSE THEY DON’T WANT YOU TO TAKE THE WRONG STEP..TODAY,WHEN SOMEONE SAYS ME IMMATURE.I SAY OK.WHAT MADE YOU FEEL SO!!AND I GET TO SEE HIS VIEWS AND WORK WITH MYSELF TO B MATURE IN THAT ARENA.I M STILL IMMATURE BUT I RECTIFIED ONE ARENA OF “MATURITY”.
  5. WHEN YOU BELIEVE “SWEET WORDS ARE EASILY SPOKEN” BUT ITS THE CARE FROM THE CORE OF HEART WHICH TAKES A LOT OF HARD WORK…ITS CARING.IF YOU HAVE REAL FRIENDS,THEY WILL NEVER SAY WHAT ARE YOUR QUALITIES OR WHAT GOOD YOU DID!!THEY WILL PRAISE YOU FOR YOUR RESULTS OR YOUR CAREER,BUT IF THEY ARE TRUE FRIENDS THEY WILL ALWAYS POINT YOUR FAULTS WHICH NEEDS TO BE CORRECTED IN ORDER TO BE A BETTER PERSON.THEY WILL STAB YOU DIRECTLY.I HAVE SUCH FRIENDS WHO SAYS THE SAME THINGS MY MOM N DAD SAYS AND THIS WAS CONFIRMED BY MY SISTER!!
  6. WHEN YOU REALISE,REACTING IS WRONG.RESPONDING IS BEST.ITS OUR INCAPABILITY THAT WE BECAME LATE AT THE JAMS AND REACHED OFFICE LATE TO HEAR BOSS SHOUTING AT US..ITS NOT HIS FAULT..ALWAYS REMEMBER,IT WAS OUR INCAPABILITY.OR MY INCAPABILITY TO HANDLE SITUATIONS..REACTING NEVER LEADS TO SOLUTION OR MAKING US A GOOD HUMAN..ITS KEEPING CALM AND ,KNOWING THE REASON AS TO WHY THE PERSON FACING US IS REACTING SO WE MAY NOT REACT IN REPLY TO THE REACTION..THAT WORSENS THE SITUATION AND LEADS TO A FIGHT.
  7. WHEN YOU KNOW YOU MUST TRUST…BUT NOT BLINDLY BELIEVE ANYONE.
  8. WHEN YOU KNOW GETTING ANGRY IS NORMAL,CONTROLLING IT IS NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE BUT MANAGING ANGER IS ALWAYS POSSIBLE.SPEAKING LOUDLY NEVER CLARIFIES THE TRUTH OR PROVES IT’S JUSTIFIED.IT’S THE ACTION THAT WILL JSTIFY OUR NATURE,OUR MATURITY. WE DON’T NEED TO CONVINCE OTHERS OF OUR DEEDS.PEOPLE WILL EVENTUALLY BELIEVE THE TRUTH COS TRUTH WILL FIND IT”S WAY.BE IT A “POSITIVE”  or A  “NEGETIVE” TRUTH!!!HARSH OR SWEET.

AS WE GROW UP WE LEARN A LOT OF THINGS.ONCE WE THINK OURSELVES LEARNED ENOUGH,MATURE ENOUGH,JUSTIFIED ENOUGH,PERCEPTIONS ARE RIGHT ENOUGH;ONCE WE CAN;T ACCEPT CRITICISM OF NOT BEING MATURE,LEARNED ,JUSTIFIED ENOUGH…..ITS THAT POINT OF TIME,WHEN WE FAIL TO REALISE

WE ARE BLINDED WITH THE FACT THAT “WE DON’T NEED IMPROVEMENT ”

ITS AT THAT POINT WE FAIL TO IMPROVE US AS INDIVIDUALS!!!

It takes ages to b completely mature person..Times change..Things are changing and still will change.And obviously people will change…Its ur decision to hold upon some unnecessary situation or accept whatever happens and let it go or move on.

TAKE CARE

 

 

GIVING UP = = FAILURE

EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN WAY TO LEAD LIFE.EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN PERSPECTIVE.EVERYONE HAS AN ENTIRELY UNIQUE VIEW TOWARDS LIFE.SO PLZ DO COMMENT IN ORDER TO LET ME KNOW YOUR VIEW!!

SO ITS NOT THE FACT THAT I M ENTIRELY SUCCESSFUL OR ENTIRELY  A FAILURE.NOBODY IS..SUCCESS AND FAILURES GO SIDE BY SIDE.ONE’S SUCCESS MAY BE ONE’S FAILURE.WHEN WHOLE FAILURES JUST PASSES BY 40 MARKS AND THE TOPPER SCORES 65 MARKS WHICH IS THE TOP MARKS OF THE CLASS HE THINKS ITS A FAILURE.THE FAILURES THINK ITS A SUCCESS.SO EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN PERCEPTION.

FAILURES IS A PART OF LIFE.NO ONE IS SPARED.EVERYONE EXPERIENCED FAILURE IN THEIR OWN WAY.

ONCE YOU ARE A FAILURE,NEVER CONSIDER YOURSELF AS ONE.ITS JUST A LESSON BUDDY THAT TEACHES US,NOTHING WILL HAPPEN AS EXPECTED OR AS PLANNED.IT MAY HAPPEN OR MAY NOT HAPPEN..IT MAY BE  SUCCESS .IT MAY NOT BE ONE.IT MAY EVEN BE FAILURE.BUT IF WE HOLD ON TO THE FAILURE AND LEAVE IT AS IT  IS,IT OUGHT TO REMAIN AS A FAILURE IN OUR LIFE.IF WE TRY ,WE KNOW THAT WE MAY OR MAY NOT SUCCEED OR IT MAY EVEN FAIL.BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN WE WILL GIVE UP..WE MUST TRY IN ORDER TO MAKE IT A SUCCESS AND ALONGSIDE WE MUST TRY OTHER ARENAS RELEVANT TO THAT ARENA FOR A SUCCESSFUL MOVE..ITS THE EFFORT TO TRY THAT MAKES FAILURES AS GREAT SUCCESSFUL CREATURES.BUT IF WE GIVE UP ,WE WON’T EVEN KNOW HOW SUCCESS IN THAT ARENA WOULD HAVE TASTED LIKE..

I DUNNO HOW MANY OF YOU LIKE SOLVING LOGICAL REASONING PROBLEMS,BUT MY APPROACH TOWARDS LIFE MAY SEEM ILLOGICAL..I FAILED IN MANY ARENAS AND I M STILL A FAILURE.BUT ,WHAT I DO FEEL IS LIKE EVEN THE TOUGHEST LOGICAL REASONING QUESTION EVER CREATED WILL HAVE AN ANSWER AND WE WILL BE AWESTRUCK WHEN WE COME TO KNOW ABOUT HOW THE SOLUTION OCCURS.SO LIFE ALSO HAS VERY FEW PROBLEMS WHICH CAN’T BE SOLVED.IF WE GIVE UP,WE WON’T EVEN GET THE FEELING OF AWESTRUCK.

I M STILL A FAILURE.BUT I TRY IN ORDER TO BE SUCCESSFUL..I WANT TO TASTE SUCCESS IN MY ARENA.AND I KNOW I WILL BE THE HAPPIEST PERSON TO MAKE MY FAILURE A SUCCESS.REST MAY KNOW THE STATS.BUT I KNOW THE REASONS BEHIND THE STATS.SO,IF YOU GIVE UP YOU WON’T EVEN KNOW THE TASTE OF SUCCESS.YOU MAY FAIL REPEATEDLY.

YOU MAY SAY WHAT’S THE POINT IN FAILING REPEATEDLY.YOU CAN EITHER HELP OTHERS BY SAYING NOT TO FOLLOW THAT PATH OR YOU MAY SEND YOUR ENEMIES VIA THAT PATH.JUST KIDDING..YOU MAY HELP YOUR ENEMIES BY SAYING NOT TO FOLLOW THAT PATH,JUST IN CASE YOUR HEART IS BIG WHICH IS ALSO AN ENVIABLE FACTOR TO YOUR RIVAL.

ITS GIVING UP WHICH MAKES US A FAILURE.LEAVING THE FAILURE AS IT IS MAKES IT’S OWN MARK AS A FAILURE.TRYING MAY LEAD YOU TO SUCCESS AND BUDDY,ITS THE STUBBORN HEART THAT THE UNIVERSE LOVES AND HELPS IN ORDER TO BECOME  SUCCESSFUL.

NEVER GIVE UP.BE ACTIVE AND KEEP TRYING!!!

LOVE YOU BUDS!!

TAKE CARE!!

 

 

 

ANGER MANAGEMENT

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ANGER IS A PART OF EVERY HUMAN.SOME CONTROL THEM PROPERLY…REST EXPRESS THEM IN THEIR OWN WAY…WHAT EFFECTS MOST OF US IS WE FEEL BAD WHEN WE R TREATED THE SAME WAY WE TREAT PEOPLE..I DON’T KNOW WHAT OTHERS DO..BUT.I FELT IT..I COULD NEVER CONTROL MY ANGER..ALL I DID WAS SHOUTING AT PEOPLE..SAYING HARSH WORDS..LATER I REALISED,THAT EVEN THOUGH I AM BEING HARSH AT THE GUILTY,THAT HARSHNESS OF MY WORDS DOES NOT INCREASE MY RIGHTEOUSNESS TO BE ANGRY AND BE HARSH WITH THE GUILTY!!

MANY MAY NOT AGREE WITH ME,STILL I FEEL ITS NOT ABOUT CONTROLLING ANGER.ITS ABOUT MANAGING ANGER.U MAY HAVE DONE NO WRONG..SOMEONE DID SOME WRONG TO U..DAT DOES NOT MEAN U WILL STAY CALM.OBVIOUSLY YOU WILL REACT..BUT,PAY ATTENTION TO THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN BOTH OF YOU AT FIRST..MOST OF THE BEST RELATIONSHIPS FAIL DUE TO EGO PROBLEMS.WHICH ARISES FROM ANGER.MMM.. WHERE OFTEN PEOPLE TAKE THE WORDS SPOKEN OUT OF ANGER INSTEAD TAKING CARE OF HIS/HER OWN FAULTS.AND THUS THE ISSUE ARISES AS TO HOW COULD SUCH WORDS BE SAID..ONE DOES NOT FOCUS ON GUILTS ,INSTEAD ON THE PERSON’S WORSE MOODS’ REACTION..THUS LEADING TO WORSENING THE SITUATION…ANGER MANAGEMENT IS A VITAL PART OF PRESENT DAY..INCREASED COMPETITIONS,INCREASING POPULATION LEADING TO AN INCREASED NO OF COMPETITORS,INDUCES STRESS AMONGST ALL..STARTING FROM PARENTS TO STUDENTS.. PRESENTLY A 10TH STANDARD KID HAS THE SAME AMOUNT OF STRESS AS AN 20TH CENTURY OLD AGE MAN.SO ANGER WILL BE INDUCED..BUT MANAGING IT

  1. LEADS TO PREVENTION OF TAKING WRONG DECISIONS.
  2. PREVENTION OF SITUATIONS BEING WORSENED
  3. BETTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH OUR CLOSE ONES
  4. PEACE OF MIND AND ENVIRONMENT

LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST,OFTEN EGO GETS REDUCED!!

I WONT EVER ASK YOU TO MANAGE ANGER WITH THE WRONG PERSONS.BUT OFTEN THE RIGHT PEOPLE REACT LIKE THE WRONG PERSONS ,WHICH SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION,BECAUSE THEY ARE THE RIGHT PERSONS WHO ARE TEMPORARILY ANGRY AND REACTING AS A WRONG PERSON!

IF U ALSO TAKE THOSE WORDS IN CONSIDERATION,NOTHING GOOD CAN EVER HAPPEN!!

WORLD PEACE IS AT STAKE ALREADY.LETS TAKE A STEP TO MAINTAIN PEACE AMONGST OURSELVES.HARMONY AMONGST US!!

LOVE YOU PEEPS!!

TAKE CARE!